CHAPTER XI!
!
!THE IMPROVEMENT OF SEXUAL SELECTION!
!
"Love is
blind" and "Marriage is a lottery," in the opinion of
!proverbial
lore. But as usual the proverbs do not tell the whole truth. Mating is not
wholly a matter of chance; there is and always has been a considerable amount
of selection involved. This selection must of course be with respect to
individual traits, a man or woman being for this purpose merely the sum of his
or her traits. Reflection will show that with respect to any given trait there
are three ways of mating: random, assortative and preferential.
!Random mating:
If all mating
were at random, evolution would be a very slow process. But actual measurement
of various traits in conjugal pairs shows that mating is very rarely random.
There is a conscious or unconscious selection for certain traits, and this
selection involves other traits because of the general correlation of traits in
an individual. Random
!mating,
therefore, need not be taken into account by eugenists, who must rather give
their attention to one of the two forms of non-random mating, namely,
assortative and preferential.
If men who were
above the average height always selected as brides women who were equally above
the average height and short men selected similarly, the coefficient of
correlation between height in husbands and wives would be 1, and there would
thus be perfect assortative mating. If only one half of the men who differed
from the average height always married women who similarly differed and the
other half married at random, there would be assortative mating for height, but
it would not
!be perfect: the
coefficient would only be half as great as in the first case, or .5. If on the
other hand (as is indeed the popular idea) a tall man tended to marry a woman
who was shorter than the average, the coefficient of correlation would be less
than 0; it would have some negative value.
Actual
measurement shows that a man who exceeds the average height by a given amount
will most frequently marry a woman who exceeds the average by a little more
than one-fourth as much as her husband does. There is
!thus
assortative mating for height, but it is far from perfect. The actual
coefficient given by Karl Pearson is .28. In this case, then, the idea that
"unlikes attract" is found to be the reverse of the truth.
!If other traits
are measured, assortative mating will again be found. Whether it be eye colour,
hair colour, general health, intelligence, longevity, insanity, or congenital
deafness, exact measurements show that a man and his wife, though not related
by blood, actually resemble each other as much as do uncle and niece, or first
cousins.
In some cases
assortative mating is conscious, as when two congenitally deaf persons are
drawn together by their common affliction and mutual possession of the sign
language. But in the greater number of cases it
is wholly
unconscious. Certainly no one would suppose that a man selects his wife
deliberately because her eye colour matches his own; much less would he select
her on the basis of resemblance in longevity, which can not be known until
after both are dead.
!
Sigmund Freud
and Ernest Jones explain such selection by the supposition
that a man's
ideal of everything that is lovely in womankind is based on his mother. During
his childhood, her attributes stamp themselves on his mind as being the perfect
attributes of the female sex; and when he
!later falls in
love it is natural that the woman who most attracts him should be one who
resembles his mother. But as he, because of heredity, resembles his mother,
there is thus a resemblance between husband and wife. Cases where there is no
resemblance would, on this hypothesis, either be not love matches, or else be
cases where the choice was made by the woman, not the man. Proof of this
hypothesis has not yet been furnished, but it may very well account for some
part of the assortative mating which is so nearly universal.
The eugenic
significance of assortative mating is obvious. Marriage of representatives of
two long-lived strains ensures that the offspring
will inherit
more longevity than does the ordinary man. Marriage of two persons from gifted
families will endow the children with more than the ordinary intellect. On the
other hand, marriage of two members of
!feeble-minded
strains (a very common form of assortative mating) results in the production of
a new lot of feeble-minded children, while marriage contracted between families
marked by criminality or alcoholism means the perpetuation of such traits in an
intensified form.
Preferential
mating occurs when certain classes of women are discriminated against by the
average man, or by men as a class; or vice versa. It is the form of sexual
selection made prominent by Charles Darwin, who brought it forward because
natural selection, operating solely through a differential death-rate, seemed
inadequate to account for many phases of evolution. By sexual selection he
meant that an individual of one sex, in choosing a mate, is led to select out
of
several
competitors the one who has some particular attribute in a high degree. The
selection may be conscious, and due to the exercise of aesthetic taste, or it
may be unconscious, due to the greater degree of excitation produced by the
higher degree of some attribute. However the selection takes place, the
individual so selected will have an
!opportunity to
transmit his character, in the higher degree in which he possesses it, to his
descendants. In this way it was supposed by Darwin that a large proportion of
the ornamental characters of living creatures were produced: the tail of the
peacock, the mane of the lion, and even the gorgeous colouring of many insects
and butterflies.
!If the choice
of a life partner is to be eugenic, random mating must be as nearly as possible
eliminated, and assortative and preferential mating for desirable traits must
take place.
!The concern of
the eugenist is, then, (1) to see that young people have the best ideals, and
(2) to see that their matings are actually guided by these ideals, instead of by
caprice and passion alone.
1. In discussing
ideals, we shall ask (a) what are the present ideals governing sexual selection
in the United States; (b) is it
!psychologically
possible to change them; (c) is it desirable that they be changed, and if so, in
what ways?
There are
several studies which throw light on the current ideals. Physical Culture
magazine lately invited its women readers to send in the specifications of an
ideal husband, and the results are worth considering because the readers of that
publication are probably less swayed by purely conventional ideas than are most
accessible groups of
!women whom one
might question. The ideal husband was held by these women to be made up of the
following qualities in the proportions given:
!Per cent.
Health 20
Financial success 19
Paternity 18
Appearance 11
Disposition 8
Education 8
Character 6
Housekeeping 7
Dress 3
!--- 100
!Without laying
weight on the exact figures, and recognising that each woman may have defined
the qualities differently, yet one must admit aside from a low concern for
mental ability that this is a fairly good eugenic specification. Appearance, it
is stated, meant not so much facial beauty as intelligent expression and manly
form. Financial success is correlated with intelligence and efficiency, and
probably is not rated too high. The importance attached to paternity--which, it
is explained, means a clean sex life as well as interest in children--is worth
noticing.
!For comparison
there is another census of the preferences of 115 young women at Brigham Young
College, Logan, Utah. This is a "Mormon" institution and the
students, mostly farmers' daughters, are probably expressing ideals which have
been very little affected by the demoralising influences of modern city life.
The editor of the college paper relates that:
!Eighty-six per
cent of the girls specifically stated that the young man must be morally pure;
14% did not specifically state.
!Ninety-nine per
cent specifically stated that he must be mentally and physically strong.
!Ninety-three
per cent stated that he must absolutely not smoke, chew, or drink; 7% did not
state.
Twenty per cent
named an occupation they would like the young man
!to follow, and
these fell into three different classes, that of farmer, doctor and business.
!Four and
seven-tenths per cent of the 20% named farmer; 2.7% named doctor, and 1.7%
named business man; 80% did not state any profession.
!Thirty-three
and one-third per cent specifically stated that he must be ambitious; 66-2/3%
did not state.
!Eight per cent
stated specifically that he must have high ideals.
!Fifty-two per
cent demanded that he be of the same religious conviction; 48% said nothing
about religion.
Seventy-two per
cent said nothing regarding money matters; 28% stated what his financial
condition must be, but none named a specific amount. One-half of the 28% stated
that he must be rich, and three-fourths of these were under twenty years of
age; the
!other half of
the 28% said that he must have a moderate income and two-thirds of these were
under twenty years of age.
!Forty-five per
cent stated that the young man must be taller than they; 55% did not state.
!Twenty per cent
stated that the young man must be older, and from two to eight years older; 80%
did not state.
Fifty per cent
stated that he must have a good education;
!one-fourth of
the 50% stated that he must have a college education; 95% of these were under
twenty-one years of age; 50% did not state his intellectual attainments.
!Ninety-one per
cent of all the ideals handed in were written by persons under twenty years of
age; the other 8-1/2% were over twenty years of age.
!Physical
Culture, on another occasion, invited its male readers to express their
requirements of an ideal wife. The proportions of the various elements desired
are given as follows:
!Per cent
Health 23
"Looks" 14
Housekeeping 12
Disposition 11
Maternity 11
Education 10
Management 7
Dress 7
Character 5
!--- 100
One might feel
some surprise at the low valuation placed on "character," but it is
really covered by other points. On the whole, one can not be dissatisfied with
these specifications aside from its slight concern
!about mental
ability.
Such wholesome
ideals are probably rather widespread in the less sophisticated part of the
population. In other strata, social and financial criteria of selection hold
much importance. As a family ascends in economic position, its standards of
sexual selection are likely to change. And in large sections of the population,
there is a fluctuation in the standards from generation to generation. There is
reason to
suspect that the standards of sexual selection among educated young women in
the United States to-day are higher than they were a quarter of a century, or
even a decade, ago. They are demanding a higher degree of physical fitness and
morality in their suitors. Men, in turn,
are beginning to
demand that the girls they marry shall be fitted for
!the duties of
home-maker, wife and mother,--qualifications which were essential in the
colonial period but little insisted on in the immediate past.
!It is evident,
then, that the standards of sexual selection do change; there is therefore
reason to suppose that they can change still further. This is an important
point, for it is often alleged as an objection to eugenics that human
affections are capricious and can not be influenced by rational considerations.
Such an objection will be seen, on reflection, to be ill-founded.
There is,
therefore, from a psychological point of view, no reason why the ideals of eugenics
should not become a part of the mores or unwritten laws of the race, and why
the selection of life partners should not be unconsciously influenced to a very
large extent by them. As a necessary preliminary to such a condition,
intelligent people must cultivate the attitude of conscious selection, and get
away from the crude, fatalistic viewpoint which is to-day so widespread, and
which is exploited ad nauseam on the stage and in fiction. It must be
remembered that
there are two well-marked stages preceding a betrothal: the first is that of
mere attraction, when reason is still operative,
and the second
is that of actual love, when reason is relegated to the background. During the
later stage, it is notorious that good counsel is of little avail, but during
the preliminary period direction of the affections is still possible, not only
by active interference of friends
!or relatives,
but much more easily and usefully by the tremendous influence of the mores.
Eugenic mores
will exist only when many intelligent people become so convinced of the ethical
value of eugenics that that conviction sinks into their subconscious minds.
Care must be taken to
prevent highly
conscientious people from being too critical, and letting a trivial defect
outweigh a large number of good qualities. Moreover,
changes in the
standards of sexual selection should not be too rapid, as that results in the
permanent celibacy of some excellent but
!hyper-critical
individuals. The ideal is an advance of standards as rapidly as will yet keep
all the superior persons married. This is accomplished if all superior
individuals marry as well as possible, yet with advancing years gradually
reduce the standard so that celibacy may not result.
!Having decided
that there is room for improvement in the standards of sexual selection, and
that such improvement is psychologically feasible, we come to point (c): in
what particular ways is this improvement needed? Any discussion of this large
subject must necessarily be only suggestive, not exhaustive.
If sexual
selection is to be taken seriously, it is imperative that
!there be some
improvement in the general attitude of public sentiment toward love itself. It
is difficult for the student to acquire sound knowledge[98] of the normal
manifestations of love: the psychology of sex has been studied too largely from
the abnormal and pathological side; while the popular idea is based too much on
fiction and drama which emphasise the high lights and make love solely an
affair of emotion. We are not arguing for a rationalisation of love, for the
terms are almost contradictory; but we believe that more common sense could
profitably be used in considering the subject.
If a typical
"love affair" be examined, it is found that propinquity and
a common basis
for sympathy in some probably trivial matter lead to the development of the sex
instinct; the parental instinct begins to make itself felt, particularly among
women; the instincts of curiosity, acquisitiveness, and various others play
their part, and there then appears a well-developed case of "love."
Such love may satisfy a purely biological definition, but it is incomplete.
Love that is worthy of the name must be a function of the will as well as of
the emotions. There must be a feeling on the part of each which finds strong
satisfaction in service rendered to the other. If the existence of this
constituent of
love could be
more widely recognised and watched for, it would probably prevent many a
sensible young man or woman from being stampeded into a marriage of passion,
where the real community of interest is slight;[99]
and sexual
selection would be improved in a way that would count immensely for the future
of the race. Moreover, there would be much more real love in the world.
Eugenics, as Havelock Ellis has well pointed out,[100] is not plotting against
love but against those influences that
!do violence to
love, particularly: (1) reckless yielding to mere momentary desire; and (2)
still more fatal influences of wealth and position and worldly convenience
which give a factitious value to persons who would never appear attractive
partners in life were love and eugenic ideals left to go hand in hand.
!"The
eugenic ideal," Dr. Ellis foresees, "will have to struggle with the
criminal and still more resolutely with the rich; it will have few serious
quarrels with normal and well-constituted lovers."
!The point is an
important one. To "rationalise" marriage, is out of the question.
Marriage must be mainly a matter of the emotions; but it is important that the emotions
be exerted in the right direction. The eugenist seeks to remove the obstacles
that are now driving the emotions into wrong channels. If the emotions can only
be headed in the right direction, then the more emotions the better, for they
are the source of energy which are responsible for almost everything that is
done in the world.
There is in the
world plenty of that love which is a matter of mutual service and of emotions
unswayed by any petty or sordid influences; but it ought not only to be common,
it ought to be universal. It is not
!likely to be in
the present century; but at least, thinking people can consciously adopt an
attitude of respect toward love, and consciously abandon as far as possible the
attitude of jocular cynicism with which they too often treat it,--an attitude
which is reflected so disgustingly in current vaudeville and musical comedy.
It is the custom
to smile at the extravagantly romantic idea of love which the boarding-school
girl holds; but unrealisable as it may be, hers is a nobler conception than
that which the majority of adults voice. Very properly, one does not care to
make one's deepest feelings
public; but if
such subjects as love and motherhood can not be discussed naturally and without
affectation, they ought to be left alone. If intelligent men and women will set
the example, this attitude of mind will spread, and cultured families at least
will rid themselves of such deplorable habits as that of plaguing children, not
yet out of the
!nursery, about
their "sweethearts."
No sane man
would deny the desirability of beauty in a wife,
particularly
when it is remembered that beauty, especially as determined by good complexion,
good teeth and medium weight, is correlated with good health in some degree,
and likewise with intelligence.
!Nevertheless,
we are strongly of the opinion that beauty of face is now too highly valued, as
a standard of sexual selection.[101]
Good health in a
mate is a qualification which any sensible man or woman will require, and for
which a "marriage certificate" is in most cases
!quite
unnecessary.[102] What other physical standard is there that should be given
weight?
Alexander Graham
Bell has lately been emphasising the importance of longevity in this
connection, and in our judgment he has thereby opened up a very fruitful field
for education. It goes without saying that
anyone would
prefer to marry a partner with a good constitution. "How can we find a
test of a good, sound constitution?" Dr. Bell asked in a recent lecture.
"I think we could find it in the duration of life in a family. Take a
family in which a large proportion live to old age with unimpaired faculties.
There you know is a good constitution in an inheritable form. On the other
hand, you will find a family in which a large proportion die at birth and in
which there are relatively few people who live to extreme old age. There has
developed an hereditary
!weakness of
constitution. Longevity is a guide to constitution." Not only does it show
that one's vital organs are in good running order, but it is probably the only
means now available of indicating strains which are resistant to zymotic
disease. Early death is not necessarily an evidence of physical weakness; but
long life is a pretty good proof of constitutional strength.
Dr. Bell has
elsewhere called attention to the fact that, longevity being a characteristic
which is universally considered creditable in a family, there is no tendency on
the part of families to conceal its existence, as there is in the case of
unfavourable characters--cancer, tuberculosis, insanity, and the like. This
gives it a great advantage as a criterion for sexual selection, since there
will be little difficulty
!in finding
whether or not the ancestors of a young man or woman were long-lived.[103]
Though eugenics
is popularly supposed to be concerned almost wholly with the physical, properly
it gives most attention to mental traits,
recognising that
these are the ones which most frequently make races stand or fall, and that
attention to the physique is worth while mainly
to furnish a
sound body in which the sound mind may function. Now men and women may excel
mentally in very many different ways, and eugenics, which seeks not to produce
a uniform good type, but excellence in all desirable types, is not concerned to
pick out any particular sort of
mental
superiority and exalt it as a standard for sexual selection. But
the tendency,
shown in Miss Gilmore's study, for men to prefer the more intelligent girls in
secondary schools, is gratifying to the eugenist,
since high
mental endowment is principally a matter of heredity. From a eugenic point of
view it would be well could such intellectual accomplishments weigh even more
heavily with the average young man, and less weight be put on such superficial characteristics
as "flashiness,"
ability to use
the latest slang freely, and other "smart" traits which are usually
considered attractive in a girl, but which have no real
!value and soon
become tiresome. They are not wholly bad in themselves, but certainly should
not influence a young man very seriously in his choice of a wife, nor a young
woman in her choice of a husband. It is to be feared that such standards are
largely promoted by the stage, the popular song, and popular fiction.
In a sense, the
education which a young woman has received is no concern of the eugenist, since
it can not be transmitted to her
children. Yet
when, as often happens, children die because their mother was not properly
trained to bring them up, this feature of education
!does become a
concern of eugenics. Young men are more and more coming to demand that their
wives know something about woman's work, and this demand must not only
increase, but must be adequately met. Woman's education is treated in more
detail in another chapter.
It is proper to
point out here, however, that in many cases woman's education gives no great
opportunity to judge of her real intellectual ability. Her natural endowment in
this respect should be judged also by that of her sisters, brothers, parents,
uncles, aunts and grandparents.
If a girl comes
of an intellectual ancestry, it is likely that she
herself will
carry such traits germinally, even if she has never had an opportunity to
develop them. She can, then, pass them on to her own children. Francis Galton
long ago pointed out the good results of a
custom obtaining
in Germany, whereby college professors tended to marry the daughters or sisters
of college professors. A tendency for men of science to marry women of
scientific attainments or training is marked among biologists, at least, in the
United States; and the number of
!cases in which
musicians intermarry is striking. Such assortative mating means that the
offspring will usually be well endowed with a talent.
!Finally, young
people should be taught a greater appreciation of the lasting qualities of
comradeship, for which the purely emotional factors that make up mere sexual
attraction are far from offering a satisfactory substitute.
It will not be
out of place here to point out that a change in the social valuation of
reputability and honour is greatly needed for the
better working
of sexual selection. The conspicuous waste and leisure that Thorstein Veblen
points out as the chief criterion of reputability
at present have
a dubious relation to high mental or moral endowment, far less than has wealth.
There is much left to be done to achieve a meritorious distribution of wealth.
The fact that the insignia of
success are too
often awarded to trickery, callousness and luck does not argue for the abolition
altogether of the financial success element in reputability, in favour of a
"dead level" of equality such as would
result from the
application of certain communistic ideals. Distinctions, rightly awarded, are
an aid, not a hindrance to sexual selection, and effort should be directed,
from the eugenic point of view, no less to
!the proper
recognition of true superiority than to the elimination of unjustified
differentiations of reputability.
!This leads to
the consideration of moral standards, and here again details are complex but
the broad outlines clear. It seems probable that morality is to a considerable
extent a matter of heredity, and the care of the eugenist should be to work
with every force that makes for a clear understanding of the moral factors of
the world, and to work against every force that tends to confuse the issues.
When the issue is clear cut, most people will by instinct tend to marry into
moral rather than immoral stocks.
True quality,
then, should be emphasised at the expense of false standards. Money, social
status, family alignment, though indicators to some degree, must not be taken
too much at their face value. Emphasis is to be placed on real merit as shown
by achievement, or on descent from the meritoriously eminent, whether or not
such eminence has led to the accumulation of a family fortune and inclusion in
an exclusive social
set. In this
respect, it is important that the value of a high average
of ancestry
should be realised. A single case of eminence in a pedigree should not weigh
too heavily. When it is remembered that statistically one grandparent counts
for less than one-sixteenth in the heredity of an individual, it will be
obvious that the individual whose sole claim to
!consideration
is a distinguished grandfather, is not necessarily a matrimonial prize. A
general high level of morality and mentality in a family is much more
advantageous, from the eugenic point of view, than one "lion" several
generations back.
While we desire
very strongly to emphasise the importance of breeding and the great value of a
good ancestry, it is only fair to utter a word
of warning in
this connection. Good ancestry does not necessarily make
a man or woman a
desirable partner. What stockmen know as the "pure-bred scrub" is a recognised
evil in animal breeding, and not altogether
absent from
human society. Due to any one or more of a number of causes, it is possible for
a germinal degenerate to appear in a good family; discrimination should
certainly be made against such an individual.
Furthermore, it
is possible that there occasionally arises what may be called a mutant of very
desirable character from a eugenic point of
!view.
Furthermore a stock in general below mediocrity will occasionally, due to some
fortuitous but fortunate combination of traits, give rise to an individual of
marked ability or even eminence, who will be able to transmit in some degree
that valuable new combination of traits to his or her own progeny. Persons of
this character are to be regarded by eugenists as distinctly desirable husbands
or wives.
The desirability
of selecting a wife (or husband) from a family of more than one or two children
was emphasised by Benjamin Franklin, and is also one of the time-honoured
traditions of the Arabs, who have always looked at eugenics in a very
practical, if somewhat cold-blooded way. It has two advantages: in the first
place, one can get a better idea of
what the
individual really is, by examining sisters and brothers; and in the second
place, there will be less danger of a childless marriage, since it is already
proved that the individual comes of a fertile stock.
!Francis Galton
showed clearly the havoc wrought in the English peerage, by marriages with
heiresses (an heiress there being nearly always an only child). Such women were
childless in a much larger proportion than ordinary women.
"Marrying a
man to reform him" is a speculation in which many women have indulged and
usually--it may be said without fear of contradiction--with unfortunate
results. It is always likely that she will fail to reform
him; it is
certain that she can not reform his germ-plasm. Psychologists agree that the
character of a man or woman undergoes little radical change after the age of
25; and the eugenist knows that it is largely determined, potentially, when the
individual is born. It is,
!therefore, in
most cases the height of folly to select a partner with any marked undesirable
trait, with the idea that it will change after a few years.
All these
suggestions have in general been directed at the young man or woman, but it is
admitted that if they reach their target at all, it is
likely to be by
an indirect route. No rules or devices can take the place, in influencing
sexual selection, of that lofty and rational ideal of marriage which must be
brought about by the uplifting of public opinion. It is difficult to bring
under the control of reason a subject
that has so long
been left to caprice and impulse; yet much can unquestionably be done, in an
age of growing social responsibility, to put marriage in a truer perspective.
Much is already being done, but not in every case of change is the future
biological welfare of the race sufficiently borne in mind. The interests of the
individual are too
!often regarded
to the exclusion of posterity. The eugenist would not sacrifice the individual,
but he would add the welfare of posterity to that of the individual, when the
standards of sexual selection are being fixed. It is only necessary to make the
young person remember that he will marry, not merely an individual, but a
family; and that not only his own happiness but to some extent the quality of
future generations is being determined by his choice.
We must have (1)
the proper ideals of mating but (2) these ideals must be realised. It is known
that many young people have the highest kind of ideals of sexual selection, and
find themselves quite unable to act on
them. The
college woman may have a definite idea of the kind of husband she wants; but if
he never seeks her, she often dies celibate. The young man of science may have
an ideal bride in his mind, but if he never
finds her, he
may finally marry his landlady's daughter. Opportunity for sexual selection
must be given, as well as suitable standards; and while education is perhaps
improving the standards each year, it is to be feared that modern social
conditions, especially in the large cities,
!tend steadily
to decrease the opportunity.
If such a class
as the peerage of Great Britain be considered, it is evident that the range of
choice in marriage is almost unlimited. There are few girls who can resist the
glamor of a title. The hereditary peer
!can therefore
marry almost anyone he likes and if he does not marry one of his own class he
can select and (until recently) usually has selected the daughter of some man
who by distinguished ability has risen from a lower social or financial
position. Thus the hereditary nobilities of Europe have been able to maintain
themselves; and a similar process is undoubtedly taking place among the idle
rich who occupy an analogous position in the United States.
But it is the
desire of eugenics to raise the average ability of the
whole
population, as well as to encourage the production of leaders. To fulfil this
desire, it is obvious that one of the necessary means is to extend to all
desirable classes that range of choice which is now possessed only by those
near the top of the social ladder. It is hardly necessary to urge young people
to widen the range of their acquaintance, for they will do it without urging if
the opportunity is presented to them. It is highly necessary for parents, and
for organisations and municipalities, deliberately to seek to further every
means which will bring unmarried young people together under proper
supervision. Social workers have already perceived the need of institutional as
well as municipal action on these lines, although they have not in every case
recognised the eugenic aspect, and from their efforts it is probable that
suitable institutions, such as social
centers and recreation
piers, and municipal dance halls, will be greatly multiplied.
!
!
The churches
have been important instruments in this connection, and the
worth of their
services can hardly be over-estimated, as they tend to bring together young
people of similar tastes and, in general, of a superior character. Such
organisations as the Young People's Society of Christian Endeavour serve the
eugenic end in a satisfactory way; it is
almost the
unanimous opinion of competent observers that matches "made in the
church" turn out well. Some idea of the importance of the
!churches may be
gathered from a census which F. O. George of the University of Pittsburgh made
of 75 married couples of his acquaintance, asking them where they first met
each other. The answers were:
Church 32
School 19
Private home 17
Dance 7
-- 75
!
These results
need not be thought typical of more than a small part of
!the country's
population, yet they show how far-reaching the influence of the church may be
on sexual selection. Quite apart from altruistic motives, the churches might
well encourage social affairs where the young people could meet, because to do
so is one of the surest way of perpetuating the church.
The match-making
proclivities of some mothers are matters of current jest: where subtly and
wisely done they might better be taken seriously and held up as
!examples worthy
of imitation. Formal "full dress" social functions for young people,
where acquaintance is likely to be too perfunctory, should be discouraged, and
should give place to informal dances, beach parties, house parties and the
like, where boys and girls will have a chance to come to know each other, and,
at the proper age, to fall in love.
Let social stratification be not
too rigid, yet maintained on the basis of intrinsic worth rather than solely on
financial or social position. If parents will make it a matter of concern to
give their boys and girls as many desirable acquaintances of the opposite sex
as possible, and to give them opportunity for ripening these acquaintances,
the problem of the improvement of sexual selection will be greatly helped.
Young people from homes where such social advantages can not be given, or in
large cities where home life is for most of them non-existent, must become the
concern of the municipality, the churches, and every institution and
organisation that has the welfare of the community and the race at heart.
To sum up this
chapter, we have pointed out the importance of sexual selection, and shown that
its eugenic action depends on young people having the proper ideals, and being
able to live up to these ideals.
Eugenists have
in the past devoted themselves perhaps too exclusively to the inculcation of
sound ideals, without giving adequate attention to
the possibility
of these high standards being acted upon. One of the
greatest
problems confronting eugenics is that of giving young people of marriageable
age a greater range of choice. Much could be done by organised action; but it
is one of the hopeful features of the problem that it can be handled in large
part by intelligent individual action.
!If older people
would make a conscious effort to help young people widen their circles of
suitable acquaintances, they would make a valuable contribution to race
betterment.